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It's Not About What You Think It's About

You think you know who a song is about. Usually a lover, sometimes a place, the obvious read the title hands you on the way in. Most of the time that read is fine. These six are the exceptions, where the obvious subject is a decoy and the real one was standing just out of frame.

This string collects pearls from six songs that aren’t about what they seem. A song that plays like a letter to a lost lover is really about the frontman of another band. A song named for a state isn’t about the state at all; the writer says it’s about America and the rot under the dream. A song you’d swear was about a boyfriend is aimed at two-faced friends. A song that sounds like one lover begging is two lovers cutting a deal with God to swap bodies and finally feel what the other feels. A ghost story about a drowning turns out to be the fallout of a divorce. And a blast of anger you’d read as aimed at rich kids in general had one specific couple in its sights.

Surface any of these six and the decoy drops away. You hear who the song was talking to all along.

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“This is Chris Martin singing to someone he loved and lost.”

He was. The someone is Michael Stipe of R.E.M. Coldplay built X&Y partly as a homage record, "Talk" openly nodded to Kraftwerk, and the band heard this track shadowing R.E.M.'s "Losing My Religion" closely enough that critics caught it too. Martin once described his bond with Stipe with no irony at all: "Our relationship is akin to a dog and its master. I'll always look up to him." The heartbreak you hear is a fan's.

“The song is about California.”

Don Henley says it never was. On camera he called it a song about America: a journey from innocence to experience, the dark underbelly of the American dream. Excess, narcissism, the music business that the band was living inside. California was the set dressing. The hotel with no way out was the whole country, and the people writing the song were already inside.

“"Complicated" is a song about a boyfriend.”

It mostly isn't. Avril has said it's about people being two-faced, and she meant her female friends as much as any boyfriend, the ones who act one way to your face and another behind your back. The breakup anthem a generation sang at boys was really about the friend who changes the second the room changes. It's not heartbreak. It's betrayal.

“You always heard this as one lover's desperate plea.”

It is not a plea. Kate Bush wrote it about two lovers striking a bargain with God to swap places: to trade genders, to live inside each other's body for a while, so each could finally feel what the other feels and stop the misunderstandings between them. "Running up that hill" is the deal being made, not a lover chasing someone down. The whole song is one person asking to become the other.

“He watched a man let someone drown, then sang it at him.”

None of that happened. There was no drowning, no guilty man, no spotlight confrontation. Collins has spent decades killing the story; on Jimmy Fallon in 2016 he put it plainly: unfortunately, none of it's true. The real source was smaller and meaner. He was coming apart inside his first divorce, and he sat down furious. The menace you hear isn't a witness reliving a crime. It's a man who is simply, completely done.

“The song's anger is aimed at rich kids in general.”

Fogerty has said the privilege on his mind belonged to one couple in particular: David Eisenhower, the President's grandson, who married Julie Nixon, the President's daughter. A wedding joining two White House families became, for him, the emblem of the untouchable, the people who would simply never be sent to Vietnam. The vague resentment you hear has a face. It is pointed at the President's own family.


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  1. Inside The Hardest Part Coldplay
  2. Hotel California, explained Eagles
  3. The story behind Complicated Avril Lavigne
  4. Running Up That Hill (A Deal with God), explained Kate Bush
  5. What In the Air Tonight is really about Phil Collins
  6. Inside Fortunate Son Creedence Clearwater Revival

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